The relationship line (love line) in the Destiny Matrix

The relationship line, or love line, shows what you look for in a partner, whom you attract, and where things tend to get hard. This page explains where the line sits on the Destiny Matrix chart, how to read its three numbers, and what to do with them.

What this zone is

Half of the line of love and money belongs to relationships. You’ll find that line in the lower right part of the chart, where it joins the bottom ray, the karmic tail, to the right ray of the material world. The love point lies nearer the bottom, the money point nearer the right, and the balance sits between them. The relationship line is read by three numbers: the point where the line leaves the karmic tail, the love point, and the balance.

Notice where the line begins: at the first number of your karmic tail. In the method’s logic, the way you love grows out of your main lesson, which is why one story can repeat with different partners. The line describes what you look for and whom you attract, the usual difficulty, and what a relationship is trying to teach you. It says nothing about when you’ll meet someone or how long a couple will last. It shows your own part in the pattern, the only part you can change.

How to calculate it

  1. Find the point by the center on the bottom ray: the bottom point + the center.
  2. Find the point by the center on the right ray: the year (sum of digits) + the center.
  3. The balance is the sum of these two. The love point is the bottom point by the center + the balance.

A worked example

Example: Emma, born Apr 29, 1988

5 + 10 → 15 · 8 + 10 → 18

15 + 18 → 6 · 15 + 6 → 21

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How to read your number

Begin with the love point. At its best, its energy describes the kind of closeness in which you open up: one person needs space and depth, another warmth and a shared home, a third movement and common goals. Out of balance, the same energy shows your usual trap, such as jealousy, control, silence or losing yourself in a partner. Then read the entrance point, the one shared with the karmic tail; it shows what you bring into a relationship before anything has happened. The balance shows what keeps love and work from competing.

Read the line as a description of you, not of your partner. If you’re single, it tells you what to look for and what to stop repeating. If you’re in a couple, pick the one step from the reading and try it for a few weeks before you discuss results. For a view of the two of you together, build the free compatibility chart from both birth dates.

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All 22 energies in this zone

Find your number: the table gives the first line of its reading. The full text opens in your own reading.

Questions and answers

Does the relationship line show my future partner?

No. The line doesn’t describe a specific person or say when you’ll meet. It describes you in love: what you need, whom you tend to choose, and the difficulty that repeats. That’s more useful than a portrait, since it’s the part you can work with, single or in a couple.

Does the love line apply if I’m single?

Yes. The line is about your way of relating, so it works at any time. Being single is a good moment to read it: you can see which type of partner you keep choosing, what need stands behind the choice, and what you’d like to do differently next time, without the pressure of a current conflict.

How is the relationship line connected to the karmic tail?

Directly. The line starts at the point of the karmic tail nearest the center, so the first number of your tail is also the entrance to your relationship line. The method reads this as a sign that old patterns show up first in love. Working on the tail usually eases relationships as well.

Is the relationship line the same as compatibility?

No. The relationship line belongs to your personal chart and describes your own pattern with any partner. Compatibility is a separate chart built from two birth dates; it describes the couple, its strength and its weak spot. The compatibility chart is free on this site, and the two readings complement each other.

Other zones of the chart

Comfort zoneThe number at the center of your Destiny Matrix chart shows where you feel most like yourself and how you get your strength back.Karmic tailThe karmic tail is three numbers at the bottom of the Destiny Matrix chart that describe a lesson you keep running into.Money lineThe money line shows which kind of work pays you easily and what blocks the flow.TalentsWhat comes easily to you is written at the top of the Destiny Matrix chart.PurposeThe Destiny Matrix names three purposes, one for each stage of life: personal, social and spiritual.Family linesThe family lines show the strengths and the unfinished tasks handed down to you from your father’s side and your mother’s side.Chakra chartThe chakra chart lists seven energy centers and shows what fills you and what drains you.